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Thankful Thursday ~ November 7

I recently heard some good advice and it really struck a cord with me. There is no harder there is just hard! Stop trying to convey to people why your life is harder than theirs. It isn’t a contest! Stop living in a world where you are constantly comparing yourself to others. Just live and for the love of God don’t apologize to anyone for being true to yourself!

None of us can actually live in anyone else’s shoes so we can’t ever truly understand how things wear on anyone else. This doesn’t mean we can’t be empathetic and caring. What it does mean is that you have no right to tell someone your hard is harder then their hard!

At the same time realize that being empathetic means not comparing apples to oranges! Don’t tell someone who just had their leg amputated that you know how they feel because last summer you broke your leg! Don’t pretend to have all the answers to a situation you know nothing about.

Don’t throw stones in your house of glass because eventually you will find yourself standing in the cold all alone!

Don’t lie or twist a story to make yourself a hero , eventually your true colors will be glaringly obvious to everyone else even if you are still blind to them!

You maybe wondering what all of this has to do with Thankful Thursday! Well tonight I would like to tell you how thankful I am that I’ve learned to be true to myself.

I am thankful that I am not a door mat for others. I am thankful I have enough self worth to stand up for my beliefs and challenge those who try to make me feel like less of a person!

I am thankful I am who I am. I am unapologetic for being me! I love me and while I know I am not perfect I do not need to justify myself to anyone! I know I am far from perfect and that is okay because anyone who is real admits they aren’t perfect.

I am thankful that my self-worth is strong enough to weather the storms of life and that my character is strong enough to stand up for what is right and apologize to those I have harmed unnecessarily. I refuse to be a pawn in anyone else’s dirty games! I respect myself enough to walk away from toxic people and situations and not look back.

Live with purpose not with malice and remember others may cast stones about you but their words cannot take away your truths. Their opinions of you don’t make you, your opinions of you make you.

Thankful Thursday ~ October 31

Oct31

Happy Halloween Friends!! Hope everyone had a great night enjoying the spookiest of holidays!

My Thankful Thursday post will be quick and simple tonight as I’m exhausted!

I am thankful for my family. I spent tonight at my parents house handing out candy to all the little ghouls and goblins and enjoyed dinner with my parents. Don’t get me wrong we have our ups and downs like any family but things are usually pretty good.

My brother and I spend a lot of time together these days and it has reminded me blood is thicker then water!

Last weekend Kev and I ventured over to Nanaimo to visit with his family. I thoroughly enjoy being a McGavin. They are thoughtful and loving without being over bearing! And I happen to think I have the best mother and father in law a girl could ask for!

Since I haven’t been working my furry family has stuck close to my side. Tonight Muffin and Jasmine chilled on the couch right beside me and followed me to greet every trick or treater!!

I am a lucky girl.

In My Next Thirty Years…

May22

My only advice to you these days is live your life! Don’t fear failure, if you’ve never failed you’ve never lived.

I turned 31 a few weeks ago. I know, I had to let it sink in for a while myself. But like the song says “In my next thirty years I’m gonna have some fun…I’m gonna do it better in my next thirty years”!!!! My life is nothing like I planned it when I was younger. I’m not a teacher, I’m a nurse. I don’t have children, I have my Muffin. I haven’t been married all that long and I don’t live on a farm or have horses. Life never goes according to plan, at least not for anyone I’ve ever met! Don’t get me wrong I don’t think this is a bad thing. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and life is only what we make of the series of events we are dealt.

As I reflect back on my life this far many events stand out. I don’t mean life milestones like high school, university graduations, first love, first heart break, etc. of course like anyone I can recall those well. I’m talking about those life moments that at the time may not seemed like a big deal but 5, 10, 15, 20 years later sneak back into your brain and make you realize things. Moments like a kiss on the beach, a glance goodbye in an airport, a hand picked flower, or a few words mumbled in anger. Simple things, the way wine tasted on the patio in the middle of summer. The sting of regret, the overwhelming clarity of realization. All of these things band together to form who I am today. Who I am today is not who I was a week ago, a year ago, 10 years ago. I’ve realized that everyday lived is another chance to be better, to do better.

I’ve had to make some major life choices recently. I had to face things I didn’t expect to face. I had to make choices regarding my health, love, feelings, etc. The one thing I took away from all of these events was that in actuality things in life are going to happen and sometimes you have no control over them. What you do have control over is your reactions and where you go once the event happens.

I’ve decided to just try to be better. Everyday just try to be a better person, make better choices and to enjoy life.

I Lived

Mar20

Hi everyone! Sorry about the lack of updates this week, I’ve been insanely sick. Bronchitis is not fun. In fact it is painful and depressing. I pretty much haven’t left the couch since Friday except for two hours on Saturday and yesterday for doctors and Starbucks.

On Saturday against my better judgement I went to High Tea with a group of girlfriends and the little ladies. I thought about not going but couldn’t disappoint Emma. I slapped on a smile and did enjoy myself but felt awful afterwards.

The food was delicious and the company was wonderful. It is fair to say it was the highlight of my week!

I’ve spent a stupid amount of time on the couch playing Angry Birds. Yes I know! I’m not proud of this! But I was sooo bored! I also had a lot of cuddle time with Muffin.

I really have nothing else exciting to report thanks to my lack of doing anything. Oh we got a new front loading laundry pair and it was delivered today. So pretty!